The ex Wife of Steve Harvey, Mary Harvey is at it again. We all remember her from her publicity rounds back in 2005 after their messy divorce. She went on a smear campaign against her Ex Husband. She claims Steve cheated on her with his current Wife, Marjorie and that she is the reason for the demise of their marriage. It is to be noted that Mary has confessed that she began finding pure evidence of Steve’s infidelity on their 2nd anniversary. They remained together for 16 years.
Here’s a Quick Timeline so that you don’t get too confused:
1980-1994 Steve Harvey is married to Marcia Harvey (1st Wife)
1982 Steve and Marcia have twins, Brandi and Karli
1991 Steve and Marcia have Broderick
1990 Steve 1st lays eyes on Marjorie (3rd Wife)
1996-2005 Steve is married to Mary Shackleford Harvey (2nd Wife)
1997 Steve and Mary have son Wynton
2005 Steve and Marjorie reconnect and begin dating
2008- current Steve married Marjorie Bridges Harvey
I’ve watched all four of these gut-wrenching videos (scroll down to see them) from Mary’s interview 2 days ago. It’s apparent that this woman is HURTING. Mary Harvey simply wants to be acknowledged. Sadly, she is waiting for notice from people whom have made it their business to put her out of their lives and out of their minds. She admits that she still wants a phone call from Steve and Marjorie [and millions of dollars].
Mary is quoted as saying, Steve took everything from me. I got evicted from our home. He’s turned my son against me and he took my wealth.
Steve won custody of their son shortly after the divorce. While Mary had the visceral to wage war in court, she did not have Steve’s legal team. And unfortunately, she gave them much ammunition by which to prove her an unfit mother at the time.
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Some might wonder why, is Mary popping up again after all these years. Is she bitter? ABSOLUTELY! Is she still scorned and broken? YES! It has been 12 years since their divorce (and even longer since they split).
Below are the FOUR, YES FOUR NEW VIDEOS that Mary has posted just 2 days ago. I’ve watched them so you don’t have to…although, I suggest you do in order to form your own opinions. This woman is broke down and broken. She has genuinely made herself a victim of Steve and Marjorie Harvey. Her entire identity has become a victim. Steve is hosting 2 prime-time shows, a day time talk show, a radio show and runs a host of businesses. His 3rd Wife, Marjorie is a jet setter and a top fashionista. If I was Mary, I too would be pissed off just by looking at Steve’s new Wife’s Instagram!
Mary says after the divorce, she was cut off from the lifestyle that she lived while with Steve. The designers that once begged her to wear their fashions no longer answered her phone calls. She did not have access to the money she once had. Her A-list friends no longer wanted to brunch with her. Unfortunately, that happens during divorce, not just celebrity divorce. Mary was given three of Steve’s homes and also $40,000 dollars per month ($480K per year), till 2009. After 2009, she was awarded $1.9 million.
Over the years, Mary has been arrested for a child support order that she allegedly did not know about, there’s currently a gag order in place and she has zero contact with her son, Wynton.
If I could council this woman in a Blended and Black session, here’s what I would say: Mary, we hear you. I hear you and I see you. Please know, you may NEVER get the acknowledgment that you’re longing for from your ex-Husband and his Wife. You must learn to be okay with that. These people are on a journey of their own now. They have been man and Wife since 2008. While, you may think she is living the life that YOU worked so hard for. She is not. She is living her own. Your life is NOT your past. You are not only Steve Harvey’s ex Wife, you are so much more. The legal system has morphed you into an embattled woman. While you may never win justice in the court of man, you serve a higher power and you will be ultimately judged by the way in which you’ve led your life. Steve’s redemption and salvation is no longer your concern. Your mind has held you captive. It is time to fix YOU. I know that these people are everywhere you turn. On the tv all day, on the radio, on billboards and that makes your healing feel nearly impossible. You have quite a task ahead of you but this was the life you were given, but you are not allowed to LIVE in 2005! Your divorce was settled 12 years ago. You are not allotted money that the Harvey’s made since then! You are only deepening your future disappointment by such an expectation. Your son has been alienated from you. You and his father are responsible for that. Marjorie vacations frequently, sits on the front row at every couture runway show and she calls your son, hers. I know your pain runs deep, but let’s look in the mirror at the 2017 MARY. Who are you now? What is your day like? If you could erase this man from your mind, what would consume your brain space? Let’s focus on that. You are Mary Lee Shackelford Harvey.
These are Mary’s words. Let’s hope she finds what she so desperately seeks.
I want JUSTICE. I want what I worked 16 years for. I was with him when he had nothing, so I earned her stake in the wealth. I want everything back that Steve and Marjorie took from me. They think they can leave me to die, but I want what’s mine. I want what I worked for, I want my share. Half of everything that they both have since 2005 is MINE. I want them both held accountable for it. I would not wish this life on them. We can all talk and settle this. I want my money. I just want what I worked for. I am not going to stop talking about it until I get the lifestyle that I deserve. When we met, we had nothing and now after all these years, I have nothing and he has everything. They just go in their day to day like I am nothing. Why is God is not telling them this is ok to do to Mary? It’s always in my head and in my sleep and in my dreams. I have to live with this trauma and they are living lavish. How can they call themselves Christians and be out shopping and vacationing and living the good life knowing what they are doing to Wynton’s mother? It would be easier for all of us to sit down and talk, but they don’t want to do that.
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