PICK UP YOUR CROWN, GIRL!
Coach Naja has a realizarion. After 10 years of being adjacent to a HCBM and an overall unfulfilling stepmotherhood experience, […]
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Expert Workshop: The Stepmom Guy shares a Dad’s side
https://youtu.be/bQ2SRYqf1_I Coach Naja chats with Belgium-based content creator @TheStepmomGuy founder Kim Cleyman. Kim is a Dad that helps stepmoms through […]
Coach Kevin Meeks on family court, marriage, and growing up with his kids
We typically do not share Naja’s public podcast here, BUT this episode is one that Stepmoms and their partners will […]
New eBook for ya!
Hey VIP! The team and I created a new free eBook for new followers & subscribers BUT I wanted to […]
Coach Bee Chatman chats custodial stepmotherhood
Coach Bee Chatman chats about the differences between being a custodial stepmom to kids with living and deceased mothers. She […]
New Course Announcement! Team Toxic Tammy -When BM+MIL Team Up
When toxic bio mom and your mother in law link up, it can feel frustrating. An interesting phenomenon occurs when […]
The practice of Mindfulness is finally simplified
Coach Naja shares a fresh take on the practice of mindfulness. Mindfulness is a mental state achieved by focusing one’s […]
Expert Workshop: Beth McDonough talks Inclusivity, Speaking up, and Coming Out!
Naja chats with her internet Bestie, Beth about queerness, stepmotherhood, and her journey of self-rediscovery. Beth McDonough is a Certified […]
Coach Naja breaks down complicated family dynamics
https://youtu.be/sJl9RT1cZYE I had the opportunity to present at Bree Gordon’s Connection Bootcamp and she has been generous enough to allow […]
Expert Workshop: Is your stepchild manipulative or just SCARED?
Feelings of rejection from our stepkids can lead to total disengagement and apathy. The first few years of a blended […]
VIPod 019: When The Revolving Door Hits You
VIPJessica is experiencing hardship because her Husband’s ex has broken up with another boyfriend and she is projecting her wrath […]
How to finesse the Stepmom Holiday Stress
Holidays are stressful enough! Throw in the blended family dynamic and a global pandemic and it can be pure pandemonium. […]
VIPod 017: Are High Conflict Stepmoms REALLY real??!!
In a land far away, HCSMs are trodding around wreaking havoc on their ready-made families. In this VIPod episode, Naja […]
How to earn and redeem points
Your membership at VIPStepmom.com has major perks! Earn points for doing things you’d normally do on a website like […]
VIPod 014: When Stepmom Wrestles With a Pig
Below is the transcription of this month’s VIPod. Hello Hello VIPs This is Coach Naja your hostess with the […]
Message from Naja
Being a stepmom is NOT my most important role but… My role as a stepmom was ONCE responsible for 100% […]
Coronavirus & CoParenting
Corona and Coparenting I’ve received many questions from single parents, coparents, and stepparents during this historic pandemic and my BEST […]
I was raised by a narcissistic dad
I’ve been digging deep into the mindset of narcissists. I want to humanize them in order […]
Workshop: Stick & Stones May Break You Bones, but Social Media Can Really Hurt You
https://youtu.be/5fLtXz9w90Q I chatted with Family Law Attorney Kimberly Cook about the implications of social media and how it can harm […]
How To Tell If He Will Ever Marry You
Why Men Marry Some Women and Not Others This ebook is based is one of the most genius things I’ve […]
Why I Divorced After 23 Years of Marriage
I was married for 23 years. Nothing particularly new happened in 23rd year except the culmination of personal unhappiness and […]
LIVE COACHING SESSION: What happens when Mom calls too much?
My clients Denver and Ayshia are a Mom+Stepmom combo that are experiencing a common dilemma. It’s common for children and […]
ASK NAJA: BM is a terrorist but my Stepkids love me
Q: I’ve had HCBM blocked for 5 years. Since the kids are with us for the summer, DH and I […]
VIP Advice: My man is still helping his babymama
Have you ever felt that your man was showing WAY too much grace to his unrelenting coparent? Is he weak? […]
How To Kick BioMom Outta Your Relationship
https://youtu.be/8_KWHCDPwD4 Stepmom! Hey girl hey! Here’s a bit of advice that I almost learned TOO LATE! I know it sucks […]
Interview: An in-depth look at High Conflict Bio Dads
I got special permission to share this session with you. I sat down with a woman with a HCBD. Here’s […]
I Was Raped 96 Times By the Same Man
I’ve been a Blended & Black member since it 1st started and I have seen many women share their stories […]
Why Cleveland Killer Steven Stephens Affects ALL of Us
UPDATE: Stephens has committed suicide. His body was found at 10am EST April 18. Mental illness is REAL and should […]
85 Kid Friendly TV Shows and Movies for Summer ’18
My bonus babies and I have been enjoying quite an active summer! We’ve been venturing around New York City and […]