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The Unapologetic Stepmom

Are you healing or just dealing?

Facebook groups are a great starting point when you want to feel supported and gain insight when it comes to being a stepmother. I built, The Unapologetic Stepmom, which is the largest Facebook stepmom group, so I am well aware that these spaces can be enlightening.

One of the drawbacks of seeking help on such massive forums is that you are subjected to all sorts of opinions and viewpoints, most of which are not from professional sources and sometimes they may not be solution-oriented. 

You’ve been dealing by reading and commenting on the lamentations of other stepmoms. You deal by reading the blogs and listening to podcasts. You are probably in several online groups and maybe you’ve ordered a few books. 

My years overseeing the Unapologetic Stepmom Community have shown me that there are some women that just want to find ways to deal with their situations. On a daily basis, my inbox gets flooded with hundreds of DMs from women that me to help them just deal with their situations. BUT there’s a core group of women that truly want to heal. Healing is a decision. It takes REAL work and dedication to not only acknowledge that you can’t do it alone but you have to make sure you are investing in the right tools. 

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The Unapologetic Stepmom Membership Community wants YOU

If you’re the woman that is ready to change your perspective, heal past wounds, find a like-minded tribe and shift focus back to your relationship then YOU are who I am shifting my attention to. I’ve partnered with fellow stepmom advocate, Naja Hall to offer you exclusive tools to take back your peace of mind, maintain happy relationships and be present for life’s greatest joys. By joining my private community, not only do you get access to me, but you get instant access to the VIPStepmom Members Only podcast, video workshops, eBook, my chat room and coaching discounts. Keep in mind that this space is totally separate from Facebook and 100% private.

HOW do I join? All you have to do is sign up! In order to join The Unapologetic Stepmom private community, there’s a monthly membership fee of only $5.00. This rate is only applicable to TUSM facebook members that are ready to graduate to the next level and make their lives great again.

raw, real & honest solutions.

∴You deserve a life free of anxiety, worry and defeat. I got YOU, girlfriend!

∴It’s about time you realized that you don’t have to see yourself as his second (or next) wife. You’re his LAST Wife!

∴Self-care is a must. Join me and learn my personal tips on maintaining balance amidst conflict and chaos.

∴I am going to help you align your expectations with your reality so that you can change your perspective and chose happiness.

∴I’ll equip you with the tools to kick his high-conflict ex out of your head.

What's in it for me?

I’m glad you asked! I specialize in solution-based coaching for conflicted stepmoms. I have created exclusive tools for women at any stage of their journey. If your situation commands more up close and personal attention, then you’ve come to the right place. Starting at $5.00/month you’ll get customized content that will NOT be available anywhere else on the internet EVER.

VIP access to video interviews

You will have full access to candid monthly chats with gurus in the game. This video series will dig deep into stepmothering as it relates to love, marriage, mental health and a wide array of issues that affect women like us. Not to be a name-dropper, but there are some pretty influential experts that have dedicated years of experience to this community.

Good stuff straight to your inbox

Throughout the month, I will be sending downloadables, videos, podcasts, eBooks and written content to you. Aside from our members-only content, TUSM members will have access to our database of curated picks from around the web. No need to scour the internet when you are in need of help. We are your hub for all-things-stepmom related!

VIP Stepmom podcast

Stepmoms need a little extra love, so each month you will get a brand new episode of the VIPStepmom podcast. It is juicy, unfiltered and all about YOU. This podcast is for US, by US so members of our community will be the driving force behind each episode.

Anonymous Discussion Forum

Our discussion forum is totally anonymous and it is strictly available to community members. Each month, I will peruse the forum for the top questions and comments and address them in a Q&A video session.

Discounts on Private Coaching

Do you need one-one-one help? Members get discounted private coaching with me or Naja! You also have access to our appointment calendar so you call me when you’re in need of solution-based power hour. Think of a laser session as the mashup of a motivational speech and pouring your heart out to a best friend…that happens to be an expert.


...maybe I'll name drop a little Here are some of the expert speakers

My friends are pretty amazing people and they’ve become experts in their respective niches. When you become a VIP Stepmom, you gain access to my one-on-one uninhibited chat with them on SOLUTIONS for the problems Stepmoms face.

These folks are my real-life associates and they support my mission to empower Stepmoms. Because these videos will not be available to the general public, my guests are not holding back in these exclusive conversations. Bring a pen, pad, wine and tissue! It’s goin’ down!

Merissa V. Grayson

Merissa V. Grayson

She is a Family Law Attorney, wife, mom and full-time stepmom. She specializes in Father's Rights. Merissa is such a badass that she went to law school and helped her own husband gain full custody of his son! Did I mention, she's MY attorney!?!
Brian Barnett

Brian Barnett

Have you ever heard of BPD? Brian has not only beaten borderline personality disorder, but he helps others to gain control over their battle with BDP. He is a divorced dad in a positive coparenting relationship.
Chris Wilkins

Chris Wilkins

Why would I chat with an addiction specialist? Well, most stepmoms have become so accustomed to chaos that they are dependent on it. Chris is a doctoral candidate in Behavorial Therapy and he runs an Addiction Treatment Center.
Jennifer Arnise

Jennifer Arnise

Jennifer helps women heal the painful relationship with their mother by telling their story, creating healthy boundaries and expressing their feelings so they are able to create loving, nurturing and supporting relationships in their life.
Ginger Gentile

Ginger Gentile

Ginger founded Erasing Family, an organization that investigates parental alienation. In the US alone, over 22 MILLION PARENTS are being erased from their children’s lives after divorce and separation. Ginger offers tips on how to cope as an erased family member and how to handle your child when they come back.


“I’d literally cry myself to sleep until I came across one of Naja’s videos. I was fed up and I’d already hired a divorce attorney but as I listened to her words, I started having a mindset shift. She totally changed my perspective and showed me my true power.”

-Stepmom Kayla D.

Who is a VIP Stepmom? A VIP Stepmom is a woman that understands that sometimes she is the leading lady, sometimes she is the stagehand and other times, she is not in the scene at all. We are women that have the privilege, yes, privilege of loving men with children. We also know that we have the flexibility to step up and step away!

WHY did I create a space just for Stepmoms? I’m one of you! I’m all about inclusion, but us Stepmoms are just different from everyone else. Our issues are unique. Our position is thankless, and we often feel isolated in our own homes. My work focuses on the family as a complete system, but far too many stepmoms feel like outsiders. Not on my watch, not anymore!