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		<title>ASK NAJA: I resent Biomom because all the pain she caused my man</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2019 01:54:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[biomom]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p><img data-tf-not-load="1" fetchpriority="high" loading="auto" decoding="auto" width="1200" height="630" src="https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/VIP-STEPMOM.png" class="attachment-full size-full wp-post-image" alt="stepmom advice" decoding="async" fetchpriority="high" srcset="https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/VIP-STEPMOM.png 1200w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/VIP-STEPMOM-600x315.png 600w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/VIP-STEPMOM-300x158.png 300w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/VIP-STEPMOM-768x403.png 768w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/VIP-STEPMOM-1024x538.png 1024w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/VIP-STEPMOM-1024x538-450x236.png 450w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/VIP-STEPMOM-1024x538-800x420.png 800w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/VIP-STEPMOM-1024x538-451x236.png 451w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/VIP-STEPMOM-1024x538-500x262.png 500w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/VIP-STEPMOM-1024x538-380x200.png 380w" sizes="(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px" /></p>Q: Last night my fiance revealed some things to me that I was not aware of. Prior [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>Ask Naja: Should my Husband and I tell his Ex we&#8217;re expecting</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Coach Naja]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2019 01:49:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p><img data-tf-not-load="1" width="1200" height="630" src="https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/VIP-STEPMOM.png" class="attachment-full size-full wp-post-image" alt="stepmom advice" decoding="async" srcset="https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/VIP-STEPMOM.png 1200w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/VIP-STEPMOM-600x315.png 600w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/VIP-STEPMOM-300x158.png 300w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/VIP-STEPMOM-768x403.png 768w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/VIP-STEPMOM-1024x538.png 1024w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/VIP-STEPMOM-1024x538-450x236.png 450w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/VIP-STEPMOM-1024x538-800x420.png 800w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/VIP-STEPMOM-1024x538-451x236.png 451w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/VIP-STEPMOM-1024x538-500x262.png 500w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/VIP-STEPMOM-1024x538-380x200.png 380w" sizes="(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px" /></p>My husband and I have joint custody of a loving 3-year-old. His mother and I are on [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>Ask Naja: My Stepdaughter won&#8217;t visit unless we PAY her!</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Coach Naja]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2019 01:22:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p><img loading="lazy" width="1200" height="630" src="https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real.png" class="attachment-full size-full wp-post-image" alt="" decoding="async" srcset="https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real.png 1200w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-600x315.png 600w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-300x158.png 300w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-768x403.png 768w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-1024x538.png 1024w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-1024x538-450x236.png 450w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-1024x538-800x420.png 800w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-1024x538-451x236.png 451w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-1024x538-500x262.png 500w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-1024x538-380x200.png 380w" sizes="(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px" /></p>My Stepdaughter got $450 for birthday and Christmas from her dad and I, and other members of my family [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>Study a Person&#8217;s Ingredients Before You Feed Them to Your Soul</title>
		<link>https://www.vipstepmom.com/interview-study-a-person/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Coach Naja]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Aug 2018 14:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p><img loading="lazy" width="1200" height="630" src="https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real.png" class="attachment-full size-full wp-post-image" alt="" decoding="async" srcset="https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real.png 1200w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-600x315.png 600w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-300x158.png 300w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-768x403.png 768w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-1024x538.png 1024w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-1024x538-450x236.png 450w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-1024x538-800x420.png 800w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-1024x538-451x236.png 451w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-1024x538-500x262.png 500w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-1024x538-380x200.png 380w" sizes="(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px" /></p>Yesterday, I sat down with Dr. Jenelle Kariotis of Big Change of Heart, a platform that focuses [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>ASK NAJA: My Son&#8217;s Expensive Toys Always Get Broken at Dad&#8217;s House</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Coach Naja]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Jul 2017 00:04:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p><img loading="lazy" width="1200" height="630" src="https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real.png" class="attachment-full size-full wp-post-image" alt="" decoding="async" srcset="https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real.png 1200w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-600x315.png 600w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-300x158.png 300w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-768x403.png 768w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-1024x538.png 1024w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-1024x538-450x236.png 450w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-1024x538-800x420.png 800w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-1024x538-451x236.png 451w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-1024x538-500x262.png 500w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-1024x538-380x200.png 380w" sizes="(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px" /></p>Dear Naja, I&#8217;m pretty new to this group and I don&#8217;t know the lingo for exes, wives, [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>ASK NAJA: BioMom Won&#8217;t Stop Calling During Our Visitation. Help!</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Coach Naja]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Jul 2017 23:26:35 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p><img loading="lazy" width="1200" height="630" src="https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real.png" class="attachment-full size-full wp-post-image" alt="" decoding="async" srcset="https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real.png 1200w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-600x315.png 600w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-300x158.png 300w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-768x403.png 768w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-1024x538.png 1024w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-1024x538-450x236.png 450w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-1024x538-800x420.png 800w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-1024x538-451x236.png 451w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-1024x538-500x262.png 500w, https://www.vipstepmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Copy-of-Copy-of-make-me-your-benefiary-so-i-know-its-real-1024x538-380x200.png 380w" sizes="(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px" /></p>Dear Naja, My husband asked me to post this because he&#8217;s at a loss for what to [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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