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Hey Stepmom! Can I have a second before you go?
Are you healing or Just dealing?
∴You deserve a life free of anxiety, worry and defeat. I got YOU, girlfriend!
∴It’s about time you realized that you don’t have to see yourself as his second (or next) wife. You’re his LAST Wife!
∴Self-care is a must. Join me and learn my personal tips on maintaining balance amidst conflict and chaos.
∴I am going to help you align your expectations with your reality so that you can change your perspective and chose happiness.
∴I’ll equip you with the tools to kick his high-conflict ex out of your head.
∴Learn how to make your stepkids yearn for your presence! Yup, you read that right!
Heal & deal
Facebook groups are a great starting point when you want to feel supported and gain insight on a common interest.
I have two highly engaged Facebook groups, so I am well aware that these spaces can be enlightening.
One of the drawbacks of seeking help on such massive forums is that you are subjected to all sorts of opinions and viewpoints, most of which are not from professional sources nor are they solution-oriented.
you know how to Deal
You’ve been dealing by reading and commenting on the lamentations of other stepmoms. You deal by reading the blogs and listening to podcasts. You are probably in several online groups and you’ve ordered a few books.
so how do you heal?
Healing is a decision. It takes REAL work and dedication to not only acknowledge that you can’t do it alone but to make sure you are investing in the right tools.
I've created what I wish I had when I was struggling I'm handing you the tools, all you have to do is use them!
I'm not gonna pretend Being a stepmom is NOT my most important role
BUT my role as a stepmom was ONCE responsible for 100% of my anxiety, sadness, and displeasure with my relationship. It seemed like the man of my dreams was attached to something from my nightmares. All I wanted to do was have a good relationship, but it seemed like the decisions he made before I even came along would haunt me forever. Not only do I have a Family Sciences degree, I’m a Certified Family Life Educator. Most importantly, I’m a STEPMOM that is no longer affected by the antics of those I cannot control. The level of peace and #unbotheredness I’ve reached is a place I NEVER thought I’d be. I know most Coaches, therapists, and lightworkers must position themselves as if they’re lives are squeaky clean BUT I went through some very uncomfortable experiences! I often talk about my experiences in my private members discussions, the secret podcast, blogs, etc. I do this to show you that I know WHERE you are. I am meeting you exactly where you are and I will hold your hand until you get to higher ground. I’m Naja Hall and I got your back.
I’ll see you inside the Members Portal. Make yourself at home, take off your shoes- you’re amongst family now.